Achievement of your happiness is the only moral purpose of your life, and that happiness, not pain or mindless self-indulgence, is the proof of your moral integrity, since it is the proof and the result of your loyalty to the achievement of your values.
The proof of loyalty is the achievement of happiness. Loyalty is not painful or self indulgent. Loyalty is integral to the moral self worth. Being disloyal, therefore, is immoral and causes pain and unhappiness. So why do people, in my case a trustee, wish to cause me harm, pain, unhappiness and devalue their own personal morality?
My values are not self serving, they are self determining. I would never be disloyal, I would never be participating in something that I knew would constructively or destructively result in the removal of someone else's self worth, value or happiness. Why should I, what would I gain? So why do others do it it to me?
I cannot be responsible for their morality, I simply have to accept it but never trust them again.; they are no longer a trustee. If a friend, do I remove them as such and un-befriend them. As a lover, do I hate them? No neither, better to be unaffected by their immoral attitude towards themselves or me. Perhaps better for me to adopt an a-plastic response. Feel nothing. Love is the reverse of hate; to feel nothing is an incitement of their failure as as person. The disloyal, therefore, are banished to a nothingness.
